Love and relationship from the point of ladies view

I write a lot, sometimes using the sense, sometimes just kidding around, what ever comes to my mind I write.
Mostly of time I still can see the point in my writing, but other people may not.
Today when I'am pretty set in a trustworth relationship and having a great man in my life, I am going back to the past with a few of my friends and a relationship they have been in. I was there too, in no working relationship, but who wasn't?
People can say: - Leave the past behind and move forward. This is not the easiest thing to do if you still have love for someone you broke up with, or separated for one or another reason.

There is a lot of sites and articles on the internet with recommendations and kind of opening your mind and eyes, but there are people and cases which absolutelly don't fall for any category, though they still do belong to some category. I will call them "lost". They don't know what they want, they are players, they are loosers, but they're honesty in love with their partner and are very interesting and a great companianship individuals. They have a lot of complexes and insecurity, but at the same time a lot of proud of themselves and they're trying to make "you" to serve them.

The world in relationship with this type of people is "everything is around them and their time". They will never be commited unless one day they realize what they lost , but it will not be you who will be with them, who spent so much time and maybe years to make these people to understand the importance of healthy relationship, it will be someone else. It sounds sad, but they will try to be a better person for another women/man, always keeping you in mind and maybe always loving you.
It will not help you :(

Things happend in life and maybe one day, years later you will get back together with the person you always loved, but what is sad in this "you" lost so much time for nothing to just understand what love is about? Why people can't appriciate the moment, if it is obviously love, and to stick with this and do not look for more? Why people and especially guys afraid of commitment?

There is a game of the nature, and we may be interested in others 3-5 years later, but...but...but...you could of have a great happy relationship with someone you love, and who loves you, and don't be just a heart broken in nowhere, chasing multiple partners during this time.

"I will leave you... doesn't matter how much I love you...unless you will start to appritiate things and me, the way I am. Unless you will open your eyes and see, how much I realy care. No words make the difference - the actions. It was and always will be this way! No excuses Mister."